Take Your Time - they say patience is a virtue.

This couldn't be any more true than in the case of Internet dating.

One of the main things you have to remember when Internet dating is that the pace is so much different from that of conventional dating. With normal dating, it usually takes a few hours for you to get to know your date and decide whether or not you are attracted to them and interested in pursuing a possible relationship. Internet dating, on the other hand, takes considerably longer. The swapping of information will take days, weeks, sometimes even months before there is substantial basis for attraction and trust.

If you are new to the Internet dating scene, always remember that it pays to be patient. Any seasoned Internet dater knows that it's an ongoing process and the balance is quite delicate. You can't rush your prospective partner. Asking for their number or for a real date early on is frowned upon. Doing so could cause alarm and deter them from staying in touch with you. After all, you are complete strangers and certain measures need to be taken to ensure safety.

Before deciding to meet, your goal is to get to know as much as you can about each other. Unfortunately, this will take quite a long time because you don't really get to talk at first. You just leave messages for each other that you eventually get to read and reply to once you go online. As mentioned above, this can take quite a long time and you will need to be patient. In order to achieve that real date, you should be honest and patient. On top of it all, you should allow things to progress according to a natural pace – trying to rush a relationship can end in disaster.

If you play your cards right and be as patient as you possibly can, you will eventually land that first date whilst Internet dating. Most people land a real life meeting sooner or later. By learning the rules of Internet dating and demonstrating honesty and patience, you could be on your first real Internet date before you know it.

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