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From the Matchfinder archive. References to site features and some advice may reflect an earlier version of the service. Read our current safety guidance.

So you've met someone you're interested in and they've agreed to meet you! So far, so good. But what now?

First, we strongly suggest you meet them in a public place for the first time - a café is a great start. And always let a friend know where you are and who you're with. We can't stress this enough.

Let's say that you've met them over a coffee and there's a spark there. Time for that first date. But what to do? If dinner and a movie just seems too boring, then you've come to the right place! Check out this section for some fantastic first date ideas and general advice...

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