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10 Things NOT to say on a First Date

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From the Matchfinder archive. References to site features and some advice may reflect an earlier version of the service. Read our current safety guidance.

Top 10 Things Not to Say on a First Date:

1. "I've watched this movie with my ex."

2. "My ex and I used to come here all the time."

3. On the phone (if you are a man): "I'll be home by 10 mum"

4. "Can I have a doggy bag to take with me?" (when you are in a restaurant)

5. "My dad/mum wants me to be home by nine."

6. "Come and meet my parents."

7. "I have never felt better since taking Prozac."

8. "I have had 10 lovers; how many have you had?"

9. "I only split with my boyfriend/girlfriend last week."

10. "Do you mind getting the bill? I am broke" (if you are a man).

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